Showing posts with label Sea Isle City. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sea Isle City. Show all posts

Sunday, August 30, 2009

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The Shell Seekers

A trip to the beach is a treasure hunt to us. Every time, it is so different. You never know what you might uncover. Each of us has a different prize we seek. Charlotte is happy to find any piece of shell that she can fold into her fat, dimpled hand. Carter is attracted to muscle shells these days, particularly treasuring the bivalve shells that are still intact. Will is on a constant hunt for a sea star or sand dollar, but will settle for the discovery of a horseshoe crab. I am more particular and covet a whelk shell. New Jersey's answer to the conch shell, a whelk is hard to find this time of year. Nevertheless, I keep my eyes open as we comb Ocean City's beaches.


Last week, I took the kids to one of Ocean City's beach walks. Every Tuesday and Wednesday in the summer season, the town gives guided tours down beaches in the north and south ends of the island. Last year, we attended one in the south end, at Corson's Inlet State Park. Since then, it has become a frequent destination for us for treasure hunting. This year, we went on the beach tour in the north end, near the Longport Bridge.


If you're interested in really learning about what you regularly see on a New Jersey beach, a beach walk is a great way to do so. Most of the shore towns around here have them. In Ocean City, it costs $1 for an adult, and 50-cents for a child to go on the hour-long tour. The kids get a bucket, too, which adds to the fun. As they deposit sea treasures into their buckets, the guide is able to tell them a little about what they have found.


As often happens, I got a wary eye from the tour guide when I showed up on the beach walk with my three in tow. There were two tour guides, and I heard some debate over who would take "the young ones." As we walked down the beach with the guide, accompanied by another family with slightly older kids, my boys knew all the answers to the questions that the guide asked, identifying different types of crabs, egg sacks and sea shells. With a good knowledge of the sea shore life already, this beach walk was a great way to add more details about stuff they already knew. But, at this point, Will could probably lead the tour himself. We got compliments from the tour guide afterwards, who said the kids were both good and knowledgeable.


The kids and I each picked up important pieces of information during our walk. For Will and Carter, the guide talked about the dangers of litter to both the landscape and wildlife of the beach. The children were just as interested in spotting and picking up pieces of trash as they were sea shells. For me, the guide mentioned that whelk shells have been appearing on some of the beaches on the way to Strathmere. That piqued my interest, for sure.


My friend Jen is also an Ocean City devotee and also in search of a whelk shell. Once I told her of the alleged location of whelks, she loaded her four into her car to go find some, promising me one if she was successful. She wasn't. I also loaded my kids up and scanned the beaches between OC and Strathmere. I made the trip during high tide, and was equally as unsuccessful.


Saturday, while Craig stayed home with a napping Charlotte, the boys and I headed down to Corson's Inlet with two plastic bags--one for shells and one for garbage. The beach was crawling with fellow shell seekers. Our shell bag was soon loaded with our finds--whelk egg cases, bits and pieces of unfortunate spider, sand and green claw crabs, moon snail shells and broken pieces of whelk shells. The beach was scattered with large clam and oyster shells, too, but we have moved beyond those pedestrian, every-day-shells and are on to much bigger and better. Although we still have not found a whole whelk shell, we have some nice pieces of them. And part of the fun is the hunt, anyway.


What left the biggest impression on Will and Carter, however, was the informal beach clean up we conducted. We quickly filled the bag with candy wrappers, empty beer cans, lonely, pairless beach shoes, pieces of latex balloons, a box of cigarettes. Will is a child tightly in tune with the injustices of the world, a cheerleader for the underdog, a tireless fighter for what he believes is right. He would find pieces of litter with an eagle eye and dramatically question, "who would throw their trash on this beach?" as he would toss it into the waiting plastic bag. Corson's Inlet is a state park with a "carry in, carry out" garbage policy. We don't know if the trash we picked up was left there by beach-goers or washed up by the ocean, perhaps a byproduct of the beach replenishment project in Sea Isle, which seems to be churning up a great deal--from seaweed to crabs to trash--onto the shores of Ocean City.


Regardless, we found a sizable amount of trash during our walk, including a torn up piece of tire that Will and Carter worked together to drag down the sea side. A woman passed us and smiled. "Boys and their treasure," she said. I think Will was slightly insulted. He has moved on from finding treasure to leading a one-boy effort to, as he puts it, "save the earth." He is still grieving that I made him leave a washed up pair of furniture cushions on the beach--they were just too much for us to carry.They wanted to take the trash home with us, so they could show their Dad all they collected. I talked them into a photo instead.
Our beach combing will continue as we enjoy this last week of summer. We have different missions now, though. I'm still in search of my whelk shell. Two shells would be ideal--one for me and one for my friend Jen. Will is determined to continue his beach clean up operation, one plastic bag at a time, with his trusty helper, Carter, at his side. Woe be to him who litters in front of Will and Carter. They're working hard to clean up our beaches and take it quite personally.


Thursday, July 16, 2009

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Night at the Movies

For a change of pace, we headed over the bridge after dinner for a night at the movies in Sea Isle City. Like in Ocean City, Sea Isle has a family movie night. Ocean City's movie night is in the Cornerstone Auditorium on the 2nd floor of Stainton's Square at 810 Asbury Avenue on Tuesdays at 7:15. For $4 per person, or $15 per family, not only do you watch a family-friendly movie, but they serve pizza, popcorn and sodas. We went last year for a viewing of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and will definitely be going back next Tuesday for Charlotte's Web, as well as some of the other movies planned for the each, all from the 1970s--perfect for Will, who is growing wary of "babyish" cartoons, and for me, who gets to relive my youth in cinema.

Across the bridge in Sea Isle, family movie night is twice a week, Tuesdays and Thursdays at dusk, outside in a field next to the promenade. A huge movie screen and projector sit at one end of the field. Blankets and beach chairs scatter across the field as daytime beach goers became nighttime movie watchers. Each child was given a "Sea Isle" beach ball and a small container of bubbles, keeping them all entertained before the movie started. A local restaurant, Shoobie's, handed out free bags of popcorn, much to my boys' delight. And, save for the $1.50 bridge toll, the night was absolutely free!

Tonight's feature film was Flipper. The night was definitely more about the venue than the movie itself. If you haven't seen it, but have seen other tween favorites like Firehouse Dog, Hotel for Dogs, Free Willy, you know the story all ready. Misfit boy meets misfit animal, hijinks ensue, followed by drama and tragedy, culminating in a poignant ending. Will and Carter ended up in the two beach chairs we brought. Will loved the movie--it is right up a 7-year-old's alley. The plot twists were exciting to him, even though he had seen them previously in the other aforementioned movies. Carter enjoyed it, but once his popcorn was done, he propped his Crocs on top of his new beach ball and fell sound asleep. I had expected Charlotte to sleep in her stroller, but she stayed awake and happy for the whole movie, spending most of it chatting to the woman sitting next to me.



I've been gun shy about taking Charlotte to a movie again, since our last outing to see Up on the boardwalk a few weeks ago. We had to leave Craig and the boy to see the movie on their own before the opening credits were even over. However, seeing a movie outside is perfect for kids--they can make a little noise, they can get up--it's all a little more relaxed.

Next time, we'll put our blanket and chairs down to save our spots and then run onto the promenade for a slice of pizza or a snack, maybe a scoop of ice cream. Although the beach balls kept the boys entertained, we did spent a lot of time just waiting for that sun to go down so the movie could start. Everyone else seemed to think ahead and bring bug spray. However, the constant mists of DEET seemed to have a group effect and we escaped the buggy field without a bite. Sweatshirts were a must and I'm glad that Will also threw sweatpants into my bag. The ocean breeze cooled down our open air theater considerably.

The downside? There's only one, really. The movie doesn't start until dusk, so we didn't really start watching until 8:30. Carter stayed asleep through Charlotte's shrieks of protest over being put back in the stroller, me picking him up and putting him in the grass as I folded up the beach chair, and then picking him up and carrying him halfway to the car. When my arms gave out, he quietly stumbled to the car, his eyes only half open. Although it made it difficult to get my 3 zombie-eyed kids to the car, I'm glad that they were too sleepy to notice the nightly Sea Isle bar crowd was out in force as we walked down 40th Street.

By the time we found ourselves back in Ocean City again, all three kids were zonked in the backseat, which left me with a real dilemma--how do I get them all inside? The boys were so sound asleep, heads tilted to the sides, mouthes wide open. I finally decided to wake them up, but found the only way to do so was to unbuckle their seat belts and stand them up in the driveway. As I was helping Will, and then picking up Charlotte, Carter kept leaning over and resting his sleepy head onto the side of my car, and then curling up and falling back asleep right on the concrete. It was quite a challenge to get them all awake enough to trek into the house.

Will moaned as I shepherded them up the stairs, "Can I please go right to bed?" What music to any mother's ears!